人到中年必须总结一下人生得失，反思自己，才能释怀过往，快乐当下。人生种种活法 ，信不信不重要，重要的是做不做，信不信由你。下面几点希望与各位网友共勉：
1.无论发生什么事情，都要首先想到自己是不是做错了。如果自己没错（那是不可能的），那么就站在对方的角度，体验一下对方的感觉。
2.让自己去适应环境，因为环境永远不会来适应你。求人不如求自己，企图改变别人不可能，还不如趁早改变你自己。即使这是一个非常非常痛苦的过程。有本事改造环境，没本事就适应环境，既不能改造环境，又不能适应环境，就只能被淘汰。
3.大方一点。不会大方就学大方一点。如果大方真的会让你很心疼，那就装大方一点。
4.低调一点，低调一点，再低调一点，要比临时工还要低调，可能在别人眼中你还不如一个干了几年的临时工呢。
5.面带笑容，嘴要甜，礼多人不怪。平常不要吝惜你的喝彩声，学会夸奖人。好的夸奖，会让人产生愉悦感，但不要过头到令人反感。
6.如果你觉得最近一段时间工作顺利得不得了，那你就要加倍小心了。
7.走得正，站得直，说话做事懂礼貌。与长官、长辈或年纪大的人沟通，因为你就是不折不扣的小字辈，打招呼时要看着对方的眼睛。
8.少说多做，言多必失。与人交谈，要学会聆听，不要东张西望，心不在焉。认真听讲，不打断对方，是尊重人或受到尊重最起码的素养。人多嘴杂的场合少说话少议论。病从口入，祸从口出。
9.不要把别人的好，视为理所当然，要学会感恩。
10.做事要有心机，做人要有心计。但不要眼高手低，心比天高，命比纸薄。
11.遵守时间，守时就是守信。但不要期望别人也遵守时间，你次次都做到了，不守时的人自然会不好意思，敬佩你的同时，大家都做到了。
12.信守诺言，但不要轻易许诺。更不要把别人对你的承诺一直记在心上并信以为真。
13.借病不借穷。平常不要向别人借钱，也不要借给他人钱，向他人借不安，借给他人钱，方便别人，不方便自己。如果借出，不要惦记在心；如果借入，那么，必须时刻提醒自己准时赔偿。
14.不要借钱给亲属朋友，如果不得不借，就只能当送给他了。
15.不要推脱责任，更不能说辞。即使是别人的责任。偶尔承担一次你会死啊？
16.在一个同事的后面不要说另一个同事的坏话。要坚持在背后说别人好话，别担心这好话传不到当事人耳朵里。如果有人在你面前说某人坏话时，你要一笑而过。
17.避免和同事公开对立，包括公开提出反对意见，激烈的更不可取。
18.经常帮助别人，但是不能让被帮的人觉得理所应当。
19.说实话会让你倒大霉。务实干事的人常遭务虚做人之毒手，君子难防小人。务实务虚，方圆结合，刚柔相济。
20.对事不对人；或对事无情，对人要有情；或做人第一，做事其次。先琢磨人，再琢磨事。
21.经常检查自己是不是又自负了，又骄傲了，又看不起别人了。即使你有通天之才没有别人的合作和帮助，再能干也是白搭。
22.忍耐是人生的必修课。境界是靠修炼提升，要忍耐一生的啊，有的人一辈子到死这门功课都不及格。
23.新到一个环境，不要急于融入到其中哪个圈子里去。等到了足够的时间，属于你的那个圈子会自动接纳你。
24.人活一辈子，就玩一颗平常心，改造好思想，不争不贪，平平淡淡，阳光心态。没什么大不了的事，好事要往坏处想，坏事要往好处想。没有敌人，哪有胜利？要学会感恩敌人，他会让你活得更好。时空转换，换位思考。切莫轻易自杀，其实每个人都没有剥夺自己生命的权利，再苦再难都是人生，既然一生人都在赌博，就要愿赌服输，结果好坏都只不过是一个轮回。
25.合适的讨好拍马和迎合奉承，这是和顶头上司沟通的重要途径之一，但小心不要弄脏手。切忌用舌头去舔马屁股。
26.资历非常重要。不要和老家伙们耍心眼斗法，否则你会死得很难看的。
27.做人要厚道。好心有时不会有好报，但不能因此而灰心。我们不求好人就有好报，但要用好报来造就好人。
28.待上以敬，待下以宽。身教胜过言教，以身作则，言行得体。
29.如果你带领一个团队，在总结工作时要把错误都揽在自己身上，把功劳都记在下属身上。当上司和下属同时在场时要记得及时表扬你的下属。批评人的时候一定要在只有你们两个人的情况下才能进行，出多大的问题都要给人面子，私下指正总比撕破面子了断好。
30.如果你觉得一篇文章还值得一看的话，那么你一定要评论，因为你的评论会给人继续前进的勇气，会给人很大的激励。同时也会让人感激你。人活一口气，要学会相互尊重，互相欣赏。
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