趋势与心态（讲解录音）
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趋势与心态是股市的永恒
巴菲特有句名言：“别人贪婪的时候恐惧，别人恐惧的时候贪婪”。听起来特别简单，可真正做起来偏是另外一个结果。这说明人性的弱点是难以逾越的障碍。股市就是一个放大镜，能够把人性放大，尤其是贪婪和恐惧。
“炒股就是炒人性”，著名时事评论家时寒冰说，“炒股炒到最后，克服的就是自己性格的弱点，就是人性的弱点。”平时我们说的“透过现象看本质”，“不要被一些过程因素干扰”，“性格急躁的要沉得住气，盈利的不要曲终人散还没离场”，“计划你的交易，交易你的计划”，以及“不要天天看盘”等，都包含有重要的心态因素在里面。不会控制自己情绪的话，就难以摸索出适合自己的方法，即使在股市盈利了，也是一时成功，迟早也会还回去。
杨百万的炒股座右铬是“六分心态三分技巧一分运气”。他认为，炒股最重要的心态是忍耐。在股市中有了忍耐，就能涨跌不惊，冷静地思考和分析，沉着应付、泰然处之。耐心不够就会着急，一着急就会头脑发热，发热就易盲目判断，从而进行错误操作。只有在股市中拥有忍耐，才能做到心如止水，手中有股，心中无股，冷眼看股市风云变化，平静看股价涨跌，得失随意，达到这样的境界还愁何事不成，不赢大利。
股市永远是心理(心理即信心，即政策)和资金的博弈场所，没有好的心态，没有资金保护意识，必然在股市中惨败。股市里面没有专家，只有输家和赢家。专家也未必是赢家，不是专家也未必是输家。
经营人生又有何不象炒股？！
规划人生就从定目标找方向开始
6大定制
制定当天的目标
自己的远大方向
完成当天的一件重要事
怎样和周围人打理好关系
我今天要学习哪方面的知识
我今天要做的比昨天好
6大总结
今天小目标完成的程度？
距离大方向是否又漫进了一步？
今天周围发生的事情对我有没有好处？
如何把细节做的更好？
自己今天做的事情是否尽力？
制定好明天的目标？
6大心态
今天，我开始新的生活！
我用微笑面对每一个人！
我爱我的事业、工作、家庭和朋友！
我每天一定要进步一点点！
我要立即行动，决不拖延！
我要坚持到底、决不放弃、直到成功！
6大信念
人是为梦想而活，不是为金钱名利而诱！
永远不要放弃对成功的追求！
要让事情变好，先让自己变好！
先处理心情，再处理事情！
失败是从你放弃开始的！
要认真、要快、要全力以赴！
等到梦想成真，金钱名利就会不值一提！
一个人 如果你不逼自己一把 根本不知道自己有多优秀。没有目标就会失去方向，只有每天盯着目标朝既定的方向推进，痛并快乐着，你会被一次次挫折所伤害，也会被一个个成就所感动，乐观对待生命中的一切，快乐每一天，活出最好的自己，这就叫人生。
心态决定命运
哲人说:“你的心态就是你真正的主人”。一位伟人说：“要么你去驾驭生命，要么是生命驾驭你。你的心态决定谁是坐骑，谁是骑师”。一位艺术家说：“你不能延长生命的长度，但你可以扩展它的宽度；你不能改变天气，但你可以左右自己的心情；你不可以控制环境，但你可以调整自己的心态。”佛说：物随心转，境由心造，烦恼皆由心生。狄更斯说：一个健全的心态比一百种智慧更有力量。爱默生说：一个朝着自己目标永远前进的人，整个世界都给他让路……这些话虽然简单便却经典、精辟，一个人有什么样的精神状态就会产生什么样的生活现实，这是勿庸置疑的。就像做生意，你投入的本钱越大，将来获得的利润也就越多。
生活中，一个好的心态，可以使你乐观豁达；一个好的心态，可以使你战胜面临的苦难；一个好的心态，可以使你淡泊名利，过上真正快乐的生活。人类几千年的文明史告诉我们，积极的心态能帮助我们获取健康、幸福和财富。
一、心态决定人生
一位哲人说过：“你的心态就是你的主人。”在现实生活中，我们不能控制自己的遭遇，却可以控制自己的心态；我们不能改变别人，却可以改变自己。其实，人与人之间并无太大的区别，真正的区别在于心态。所以，一个人成功与否，主要取决于他的心态。
二、生气不如争气
人生有顺境也有逆境，不可能处处是逆境；人生有巅峰也有谷底，不可能处处是谷底。因为顺境或巅峰而趾高气扬，因为逆境或低谷而垂头丧气，都是浅薄的人生。面对挫折，如果只是一味地抱怨、生气，那么你注定永远是个弱者。
 三、有自信才能赢
古往今来，许多人之所以失败，究其原因，不是因为无能，而是因为不自信。自信是一种力量，更是一种动力。当你不自信的时候，你难于做好事情；当你什么也不做不好时，你就更加不自信。
这是一种恶性循环。若想从这种恶性循环中解脱出来，就得与失败作斗争，就得树立牢固的自信心。
四、心动更要行动
心动不如行动，虽然行动不一定会成功，但不行动则一定不会成功。生活不会因为你想做什么而给你报酬，也不会因为你知道什么而给你报酬，而是因为你做了些什么才给你报酬。一个人的目标是从梦想开始的，一个人的幸福是从心态上把握的，而一个人的成功则是在行动中实现的。因为只有行动，才是否滋润你成功的食物和泉水。
五、平常心不可少
人生不可能一帆风顺，有成功，也有失败；有开心，也有失落。如果我们把生活中的这些起起落落看得太重，那么生活对于我们来说永远都不会坦然，永远都没有欢笑。人生应该有所追求，但暂时得不到并不会阻碍日常生活的幸福，因此，拥有一颗平常心，是人生必不可少的润滑液剂。
六、适时放弃才会有收获
命里有时终须有，命里无时莫强求。不要去强求那些不属于自己的东西，要学会适时的放弃。也许在你殚精竭虑时，你会得到曾经想要得到而又没得到的东西，会在此时有意外的收获。适时放弃是一种智慧。它会让你更加清醒地审视自身内在的潜力和外界的因素，会让你疲惫的身心得到调整，成为一个快乐明智的人。
盲目的坚持不如理智的放弃。苦苦地挽留夕阳的人是傻人，久久地感伤春光的人是蠢人。什么也舍不得放弃的人，往往会失去更加珍贵的东西。适当的时候，给自己一个机会，学会放弃，才有可能获得。
 七、宽容是一种美德
俗话说得好：“退一步海阔天空，让几分心平气和。”这就是说人与人之间需要宽容。宽容是一种美德，它能使一个人得到尊重。宽容是一种良药，它能挽救一个人的灵魂。宽容就像一盏明灯，能在黑暗中放射着万丈光芒，照亮每一个心灵。
八、学会给心灵松绑
人的心灵是脆弱的，需要经常地激励与抚慰。常常自我激励，自我表扬，会使心灵快乐无比。
学会给心灵松绑，就是要给自己营造一个温馨的港湾，常常走进去为自己忙碌疲惫的心灵做做按摩，使心灵的各个零件经常得到维护和保养。
九、别把挫折当失败
每个人的一生，难免都会遭受挫折和失败。所不同的是失败者总是把挫折当失败，从而使每次都能够深深打击他取胜的勇气；成功者则是从不言败，在一次又一次的挫折面前，总是对自己说：“我不是失败了，而是还没有成功。”一个暂时失利的人，如果继续努力，打算赢回来，那么他今天的失利，就不是真正的失败。相反的，如果他失去了再战斗的勇气，那就是真输了。
十、避免烦恼成心病
在现实生活中，终日烦恼的人，实际上并不是遭遇了太多的不幸，而是根源于烦恼者的内心世界。因此，当烦恼降临的时候，我们既不要怨天尤人，也不要自暴自弃，要学会给心灵松绑，从心理上调适自己，避免烦恼变成心病。
十一、快乐其实很简单
有人说，快乐是春天的鲜花，夏天的绿荫，秋天的野果，冬天的漫天飞雪。其实，快乐就在我们身边。一个会心的微笑，一次真诚的握手，一次倾心的交谈，就是一种快乐无比的事情。

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